Style is more than just the clothes you put on or the way you wear them. It’s more than the willingness to drape yourself in bold colour and patterns. I like to think of style as an expression. An expression of you. Somewhere along the line style almost became synonymous with clothing and grooming in the minds of many, but we all know there are a multitude of ways to express yourself. So next time you hear “that guy has style”, it really means that guy knows how to express himself extremely well. In this post we’ll delve deeper into what makes the most stylish guy in the room.
Who Is The Most Stylish Guy In The Room?
His dress sense is immaculate. He’s that guy that everybody notices and is drawn to. The one that has confidence in his stride. He may not be the loudest person vocally but his sense of style has definitely captured your attention. Not necessarily because it is ostentatious (which can also be super stylish if done well) but because it’s well considered and put together. He is as people would say “Doing him”. This is where it gets interesting as some may challenge this and say “I feel most comfortable when I’m in old jeans and dirty trainers”, my response would be that style is more than just comfort. It’s comfort mixed with effort (even though it appears effortless). Being ‘on point’ takes effort. Anyone who tells you otherwise is not your friend and does not want you to succeed in life.
How Important Is it?
Some may scoff and say caring about style is just narcissistic, but it really isn’t. Being stylish is incredibly important. It’s an extension of who you are as a person. It speaks for you louder than your mouth ever could. Being stylish means you’ve mastered the art of self expression.
How Do You Become Him?
Understand that it’s not a competition between you and the other guys around you. It’s simply a competition with yourself. Trust me, one visit to Pitti during Pitti Uomo will help you to understand this point very quickly. There is no checklist or score sheet to rank who is more stylish than another, because we’re all completely different. It is that simple. In a room full of people expressing themselves, there is no most stylish, there is just style!
Be the best version of YOU. Be conscious of the way you talk and the language you use. Take time to learn what clothes are best suited to your body as well as if you you like them and feel comfortable wearing them. Understand what the latest trends are and what you can take from them to suit you. There’s nothing worst than someone who looks like they’ve been dressed by the visual merchandiser from the local high street shop. Make sure your well groomed and most importantly in tune with your values. You may ask “How on earth can people see my values?!”, well it’s like this. Pretentiousness is almost always detected, even when you first meet people. You can always have a sense of someone who acts and says the things they truly believe. Living out your values leaves you 100% comfortable in your own skin and everything you wear, do and say.
So next time someone points out the most stylish man in the room, it’s not solely down to what he is wearing.
How Stylish Do You Feel?
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